Valuable Love 可贵的爱

Cherish Each Other For a Lifetime

In the wedding of a friend, the master of ceremonies, MC, come up with a hundred notes, asked all those present, "who want it please raise your hands", we thought this must be a trick from the master of ceremonies, thus no one to speak. The master of ceremonies said: "I really mean it. Who want to please raise hands".

Finally someone raised their hands, and then more and more people raised their hands. The master of ceremonies then change the bill into an old hundred dollar bill, fewer people have a raise of hands. The master of ceremonies smiled, and took out a little-broken-wrinkled old hundred dollar bill, the people raised their hands become less.

The master of ceremonies asked a little boy came to the stage, and put the old hundred dollar bill in his hand. Saying: "because he has his hands up all the time", people on  the floor roared with laughter.

The little boy have red face. The master of ceremonies waved his hand to indicate silence, and come up with that new hundred dollar bill said: "If you like, I can exchange this new one with that old one" The little boy said: "No, Thank you, uncle, it makes no different whether new or old."

The MC nodded and let that the little boy took the money and go back to his sea.

The master of ceremonies took then took the bride and groom hand in hand on the stage, said: "However beautiful the face, there will be the day when it grows old. However romantic love is, there will be changed with the change of life. Just like the hundred dollar bill on my hands, over time it will gradually become wrinkled, getting old. However, just like what the little boy said, either the new or old bill, both are $ 100. Its value will not change because of the folds or wrinkles on it. Is not it?

"We hope that the newly wed couple can understand the real value and meaning of love, do not wait until the face become old, or passion fade away, and they forget what they have just pledged "love you for life",
"May you to cherish each other forever."

The newly wed look at each other with a deep nod. The audience replied with the most enthusiastic applause.

May people, throughout his life, never stop desiring, never stop pursuiting, never stop taking, but do not know appreciating and treasuring what are at hand, and in the end nothing stay, and get nothing!

Happiness: like the wind, only stay for a brief moment, come in quick, go too , in quick.

Pain: arisen from suspicion and anticipation, speculationa, causing destruction as a kind of indescribable pain.

Sincerity : shown only when it is origin from a clear understanding of each other, feeling each other's love.

Sweetness: the exchange of the truth from both sides, the wish to bring each other joy of heart.

Thus in my life, as long as I get a person's appreciation, a person's attention, a person's gentleness, a person's genuine sincerity, a person's tears, that is good enough!

Love is not the grass is always greener, but consistent!
Love cannot be the same as the bills which can be casually trading!

Love is the only, and the consistent (from beginning to end)..

by..[ The Secret of Love ]

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珍惜对方一辈子

一个朋友的婚礼上，司仪拿出一张百元钞票问在场所有人，谁想要请举手，大家想怕是司仪想出来整人的花招吧，没人说话。司仪说：【我说真的，想要的请举手】。

终 于有人举手了，接着越来越多的人举手了。司仪看了看大家，换了一张旧的百元钞票，举手的人明显的少了许多。司仪笑了笑了又换了张皱巴巴的有点破损的旧百元 钞票，但是现场举手的人寥寥无几了。司仪请了一位小男孩上台，并把那张旧钞票放在他的手里。说：【因为他一直举着手】，下面的人哄堂大笑。小男孩的脸有些 发红，司仪摆摆手示意大家安静，拿出那张新的百元钞票说：【我这张新的跟你那张旧的换换，可以吗？小男孩说：【不用了，谢谢叔叔，新的旧的都一样】。
司仪点点头，让小男孩拿着钱下去了。

司仪让新郎新娘手拉手走上台，说：【再美丽的容颜，总有老去的一天。再浪漫的爱情，也会随着生活的变化而变化】。

【就 如同我手中的钞票一样，随着时间的变化会慢慢变皱，变旧。但是也像那小男孩说的新的旧的都是一百元。它的价值不会因为上面的皱褶而改变。不是吗？希望新人 能懂得爱情真正的价值和意义，不要等到容颜老去，或是激情化为平淡的时候，就忘记了刚才亲口说出的《爱你一生一世》的誓言，请你们珍惜对方一辈子】。
新人对望了一下深深的点点头。台下暴发了热烈的掌声。

大多数的人终其一生，不停地渴望，不停地追求，不停地夺取，却不知道珍惜手边的幸福，到头来一无所有，什么也没得到！
快乐：像风一样，只是一瞬间的，来的快，去的也快。

痛苦：是来自怀疑和猜测，造成的伤害是一种无法言语的痛。

真心：是来自清楚的了解了对方，感受到对方的爱，才会展现出来的表现。

甜蜜：是来自双方的真情交流，只想带给对方欢乐的心。

所以在我的生命中，只要得到一个人的欣赏，一个人的关注，一个人的温柔，一个人的真心真情，一个人的眼泪就足够了！爱不是喜新厌旧，而是始终如一！但是爱不能像钞票一样随便交易！爱是唯一的，也是如一的。

摘自..[ 琉璃物語]